Love Talking: Iyanla Vanzant Helps GRIFF To Heal After His Divorce

“The reason my relationship has lasted all these years is because Stedman had his own path and was happy with his path, proud of his path, and wanted me to be everything I could be.” Now, Iyanla is back and ready to open up about losing everything…and finding peace in the process. Having recently ended a lengthy relationship herself, Iyanla can relate. “After 14 years, I recognized he don’t love me the way I want to be loved,” Iyanla says of her ex. “For 14 years, I was hoping, ‘Okay, he’s going to get it. He’s going to get it. He’s going to get it. He’s going to get it.’ And then I said, ‘You know what? He ain’t getting it.’ And it’s okay.”

Special guest and author Dr. Steve Perry discusses fatherhood with the men of the house. After an intense discussion, one house guest may leave for good. A woman who got wasted at a Marilyn Manson concert blew up $15 million worth of property. For those who need a refresher from Love Is Blind Season 2, Jarrette found himself “going back and forth” between Iyanna and Mallory Zapata. He ultimately chose the latter, proclaiming to the cameras that he’d be celebrating his 50th anniversary with Mallory.

Rhonda Eva Harris aka Iyanla Vanzant is a relationship expert. Despite being a relationship guru, she struggled with marital issues of her own. She opened up about the challenges she faced during her married life in Oprah. After two failed marriage, the $20 million worthVanzant does not want to get married again. Iyanla works with Sheree Whitfield on her relationship with her ex-husband, former NFL star Bob Whitfield. Iyanla sits down with the couple to talk about the role of co-parenting in spite of their contentious divorce.

Despite their rocky start, these two did get married on the show in an adorable ceremony. “We have so much more to do, but, oh, my God, this is a great start,” Iyanna told the cameras after the pair swapped vows. “I just married the woman of my dreams. I’m f—ing on top of the world right now—cloud nine,” Jarrette added. Jarrette was totally cool with Iyanna’s choice to wait to have sex until after they were married.

During a recent episode of “Iyanla Fix My Life,” Vanzant took a minute to share some insight from her own life. She’s spoken about being a teenage mother, about the fact that her family members lied to her about her mother’s identity, that her grandmother was often mean and unexpressive. Alicia threatens to abandon the healing process like she has abandoned her six daughters time and time again. When the eldest daughter reveals yet another deep secret about her mother’s sexuality, Iyanla worries that the family is beyond repair.

The reason you can’t let go is that we were taught to believe that we need someone else to focus on in order to experience love — and this is not true. “Two flawed people simply trying to create something. It’s only been 10 months, but kamiya jani husband the amount of transition and growth we’ve experienced individually and as a couple is astounding,” she captioned an April IG post. “Marriage is a crucible and a mirror. I believe in it in a way I don’t think I understood before.”